Reply To: How to know if I have vaginismus? Next steps?

[olivia78]

Hi! Im 16 and I have been able to use tampons and to have 2 of my fingers into my vagina but I was about to have sex with my boyfriend of 7 months and it was like he was hitting a wall. I researched and saw that I might have vaginismus and now it is like a new insecurity I have. My boyfriend is the best and would never rush anything but I want to have sex. I have read that some gynos do not really help this situation and say that it is fine because I am young but I do think this is a problem. I really beed advice because I don’t know if I can get dilators. This idea that I have vaginismus keeps me up at night and I really need someone to help me through this.