leonii, thanks so much for sharing your experience! This is super interesting and I can see how that is a really effective step in the vaginismus treatment process. A LOT of people post on these forums about how many male partners of former vaginismus sufferers deal with their OWN issues around arousal, keeping erections, and more once the vaginismus is addressed, so it’s nice that you had a structure to address that before it became a bigger issue in your relationship.
You might not know this, but do you know if that partner rule still applies if someone who is single but wants to cure their vaginismus is going through pelvic floor therapy? Or is that just something someone would be unlikely to do in Greece?