Sammy2021, I think we definitely did get lucky – and it may have been a few more weeks than I remember, it was awhile ago now. But it was definitely not more than 6-8 weeks i think, there was a distinct feeling of a breakthrough once he actually stopped masturbating in the same way he was used to. I think it also depends for the man how much psychological baggage he’s carrying around about not being able to orgasm. I was lucky in that my partner was very optimistic and willing to try things without too much shame. It’s different for everyone but necessary for so many partnerships where the female partner has been dealing with vaginismus!

Yes SunnySonya, I hope you’re doing well! Please feel free to share or ask any questions you have.