Thanks so much for sharing your advice, mark2021! I definitely had this same issue when me and my partner were finally able to have intercourse – he just wasn’t used to the sensation and couldn’t have an orgasm without using his hand to finish himself. The fix for us was just the same – my partner stopped masturbating and before too long he relearned stimulation through vaginal intercourse. I hope it helps that so many of us have had the same issue and the same solution!