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redrose
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I’ve had such setbacks as well, and the most difficult part IMHO is the psychological issues that comes into play at that moment. When I noticed a certain dilator didn’t fit anymore, I started panicking and worrying etc and that doesn’t help AT ALL. I couldn’t relax anymore because I felt bad because of the setback, and if my memory serves me right, I even had to go back 3 sizes to start again from there and build up my confidence again.