Thanks for answering! My OBGYN wanted me to try taking Ativan before my first Pap smear to help me relax but I was worried I wouldn’t feel like I was in control. I have to go back in a few months so I was hoping I would be less nervous after going to PT but thinking about it still makes me cry. Do you have any tips for getting through OBGYN exams? Should I try the Ativan?