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Thank you Recessivegenequeen and Heather for your replies! For the last 20 days, I have been working with the 4inch dilator and now I am losing my motivation because my vagina is too tight for the last one week or so. I have my period coming up on 7. Maybe that’s why dilation is difficult. I have tried so hard to size up to the 5 inch dilator because that’s my husband size but I have been unsuccessful every time. I am tired and feel like giving up. Why is it so difficult every time when others can do it in one go? Can anyone tell me what to do and how not to give up? I am on the verge of a mental breakup.
P.s I started my journey of dilation on March 20 and now its May 4..