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Hi Naturelover34 – I’m so sorry to hear about the issues you’ve been having with vaginismus. I had it for about 10 years before I was cured through the Maze Clinic’s botox procedure and I know how hard emotionally it can be for both you and your partner to be unable to connect in that way. The stress and feelings of shame can compound the issue, like Melissa said, and it affects your partner’s confidence for sure. These feelings are totally normal in this situation and you shouldn’t feel alone in them! Countless other women have felt how you’re feeling and have been able to overcome it before, so I hope that possibility is a comfort to you.
I echo what Melissa said – I suggest exploring some treatment options like getting a set of dilators or giving Maze a call just to see what you think would work for you. This feeling does not have to be forever and there are people here who can help you reach greater happiness in the future!