@ Versha, welcome to the forum again and I love reading your posts. You wrote “I went through many uninformed doctors who told me just relax, it’s all in your head, and have a drink.” I’m so sorry that this happened to you and it’s very frustrating. By talking openly about vaginismus here and through research, we can all work together to educate doctors and clinicians so no women has to go through this. I’m also very excited that you will be having the procedure done in March. Please, please feel free to ask any more questions that you have about the procedure itself, vaginismus, or anything at all. Also, please review the Category: Tips for Future Patients as it will have a tremendous amount of useful information pre-procedure. I look forward to reading your posts.