Hi wine and welcome to the forum! Thank you so, so much for sharing your story. My sincere CONGRATS to you on your success with the dilators. It is wonderful that you were able to use the largest one!!! I personally have never tried the lubricant “YES” but I have also heard really good reviews about it. Have you tried using it yet? I would love to hear what you think about it. The only lube that I’ve used is the lidocaine/surgilube mix from Dr. P’s office and then “Pre-seed” as it is fertility friendly and we are currently trying to conceive. As for sleeping with dilators, I have used the “pure-romance” dilators from Dr. Pacik’s office. In the beginning, I slept with the purple alternating with pink medium-large dilators. Now, several forum members have also discussed the new glass dilators and they have received rave reviews for their comfort levels. I can’t wait to hear more from you and read more of your posts. Take care, H