Reply To: 12 years. Help.

[recessivegenequeen]

Mw84UK, I’m so sorry to hear this about your marriage. Sometimes vaginismus can have a way of hiding the even bigger problems in a relationship’s sexual dynamics behind this particular concrete “problem.”

I agree that you deserve more than begging for scraps of your wife’s attention and attraction, and it sounds like this is probably your best path forward toward getting what you actually need out of a romantic/sexual relationship. I hope that you will find a great relationship in the future, and also that you will be able to take all the lessons and skills you learned in your marriage and apply them to a healthier dynamic. It is a hard journey in life to get our needs met but it’s a worthwhile one!