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I don’t come on and comment but have kept up with replies.

Sadly this week, I think our marriage came to an end. She made some strides in improving our sex life and is even now able to have sex. However she still never wants to, and the lack of initiation on her part has taken me to a point where I’ve thrown in the towel. Me sitting her down and very clearly communicating my needs a good few times since me initially posting in this forum.

I’ve spent too many years carrying the pain of wondering why she cant ever initiate sex and wondering whats wrong with me and why she won’t make it happen and dealing with the pain of that and having to sit my wife down and basically beg for sexual attention for things to make initial quick changes bit for nothing to be followed up.