Hi janice – thanks for writing and welcome to our community!
I’m sorry to hear about your experiences, but I assure you that you aren’t alone!
I also want to applaud your willingness to seek support, and your ability to advocate for yourself by getting a second opinion when the initial provider’s answer wasn’t sufficient for you.
The answer to your specific question depends upon each individual, their unique anatomy, etc. You may want to consider returning to a gyn for a consult to help you make the decision that is right for you.
If you are near our offices and would like to schedule an initial visit (or start with a 10-minute free consult) we are only too happy to diagnose and offer potential treatment options. I wish you all our best!