Seekingu, just wanted to say how impressed I am with all you’ve overcome and that I’m glad that you’re able to have pain-free intercourse! That’s a big milestone that you worked hard to get to. I hope your doctor can figure out what the issue is, but also, I think when you’re ready you should tell your partner about the pain you have so he can support you through it. Gynecological issues unfortunately often get treated as taboo and thus we have embarrassment about discussing them, but it’s not like it’s something that’s your fault. I hope you find relief soon and good luck in your relationship! Let us know what you learn!