Hi, Tiny196! I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this! What you’re describing, is what I experienced and I was diagnosed with Vaginismus. I’d have pain upon any type of penetration and it felt like a hot knife. Your periods will be a huge tell if you have vulvodynia. If your periods are incredibly painful, keep you out of work/school, and give you diarrhea.. it may be vulvodynia. But I’m not a doctor! How are you doing?? Keep us updated, we’re here for you every step of the way!