Okay. Listen up folks. The only time penis size really matters is if the penis is too big and hurts the women. In all my hundereds of patients I HAVE NEVER had a woman complain to me that her partner’s penis was too small. Never! I have, however, had a number of women whose partner’s penis was so big as to make intercourse really, really uncomfortable. This is a fairly complicated problem to solve. A “small” penis is truthfully not something most women are going to care about (or even notice, frankly). The vaginal canal is not a big space. As a matter of fact, it’s not a space at all. It’s just “potential space” and it will open up to whatever size penis is introduced. And it will get the same amount of friction no matter what the size. So women, embrace the penis size of your partner. (If it’s too big, you may want to come see us though.) Men, let it be. Your penis is PERFECT.
Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus is a certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, one of the largest centers for women’s sexual health in the country. Dr. Marcus wrote her dissertation on women and vibrator use while earning her Doctor of Philosophy in human sexuality from the Institute of Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She also has a Master’s in public health from the same institution. She is a licensed social worker with a Master’s degree from Columbia University. Dr. Marcus has worked as the executive director of not-for-profit institutions and corporations, medical practices and laboratories. In addition to being featured in a NY Times article, she is a frequent guest on radio, podcasts and has lectured both nationally and overseas on a wide variety of women's issues.